Showing posts with label Behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Behavior. Show all posts

Tuesday, 16 January 2024

Graciousness

 

From graciousness to being non-gracious to pettiness. These are levels of human thoughts and patterns. Graciousness is a trait that seldom translates into the non-gracious and even less, pettiness. Gracious people are gracious inside and outside. Of course, there could be certain basic triggers from Old memories that might induce non characteristic thoughts/ behavior. But these are easily checked because they are not intrinsic traits.

The long and short of this is… we must watch our thought patterns and reactions minutely and regularly. Unless we want to live a life of a yoyo, oscillating between our positives and negatives and reaching nowhere but into a world of likes/ dislikes/prejudices/ and a demonstration of these inspired by a well fed ego.

The choice is ours! Whether to clean up or remain polluted. Because our next life will start from where this one stopped.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Tuesday, 11 September 2018

Observe


To have an opinion means you are a thinking person. To be rigid about your opinion shows that you have not churned your opinion with that of others and then found yours to be the final and convincing one. To keep changing your opinion means you are unsure of yourself. To shy away from voicing your opinion means that you might be intimidated by others who express freely. And to keep voicing your opinion at every step shows an ego which is not really inspired by knowledge.
And this is just my opinion based on observations and waiting to be churned with those of others on their observations.
Surekha Kothari

surekhakothari.wordpress.com