If you are not a confident
person, you will always lack in confidence in relationships as well. You might
misunderstand instead of understanding because the light emitted by confident
people is so bright that many may automatically come under its shadow.
Really not a desirable
situation the idea of “I am not good enough” can be the reason. This could have
developed in childhood or maybe, with constant comparisons. But this is sheer
ignorance nevertheless.
Most of the time, we try to
avoid people who threaten us. We know what’s happening but still, don’t want to
change this, although change May bring much positivism in us.
If you are excited about
learning cycling but scared to sit on one, how will you learn to use it to move
forward? Diffidence is like never getting onto that cycle. No one can lift us
and put us on that seat except ourselves.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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