Showing posts with label Comparison. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Comparison. Show all posts

Wednesday, 24 July 2024

Comparison

 Sometime in life, you have to develop your sense of peace, which is yours alone.

Whatever you have is enough.

Whatever your needs are will be met by the universe.

HE will decide when you receive, what and how much you receive.

The futility of thoughts can take away from peace.

Comparisons are odious, to say the least.

Moving forward is the key and the tendency to JUST BE!

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Monday, 3 May 2021

Confidence

 

If you are not a confident person, you will always lack in confidence in relationships as well. You might misunderstand instead of understanding because the light emitted by confident people is so bright that many may automatically come under its shadow.

Really not a desirable situation the idea of “I am not good enough” can be the reason. This could have developed in childhood or maybe, with constant comparisons. But this is sheer ignorance nevertheless.

Most of the time, we try to avoid people who threaten us. We know what’s happening but still, don’t want to change this, although change May bring much positivism in us.

If you are excited about learning cycling but scared to sit on one, how will you learn to use it to move forward? Diffidence is like never getting onto that cycle. No one can lift us and put us on that seat except ourselves.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Friday, 6 November 2020

Acquiring power

 The tragedy of acquiring power is that you begin to think you are invincible. And that is the biggest mistake you make. Because you invariably start to turn the wheel in your favor, oblivious to the fact that there is an unseen force that works behind the scenes to stage your downfall if you disregard the principles of living. I used to think there were choices we all have. But I now realize that we have no choice but to be good humans, above and despite everything else, and to be more than good if we are in high places.

Yes, it is difficult to be good. But who said life was easy? We have to conquer ourselves, after all. It is no mean task and not a second to waste. A tall man has to bend to go through a door. A man in high places needs to bend his head in a similar manner to get through to people and connect.

Goodness is also relative. If you spend lavishly for a personal reason and do a little charity, that goodness is not recognized in comparison to a poor person who gives away his food to someone needier.

So, let us not hide behind goodness as a facade because someone up their watches.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Sunday, 24 November 2019

Emotions and pain

The common theory is that the caliber and mettle of a human being is how he or she braves the hardships in life. This is what we are taught. Grin and bear it, or grit your teeth. Clench your fists ... etc.
But there is also another side to this. Bottling up emotions and pain can have significant side effects. Sooner or later, they could spiral into major health setbacks.
The only way you can assimilate pain of any kind is by not letting it sink into your cellular memory. Physical pain can be forgotten once it is treated. But emotional pain as also mental agony get registered and continue to give pain even after the event. We have to guard against this.
Always have avenues of releasing this kind of pain, in whichever way, before it becomes a deep wound.
Surekha Kothari

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari