Humans survive on their core beliefs. If those are negative about someone, they generate hate. If they are positive, they generate caring, affection . BUT , only until such time as their core belief changes.
Therefore dependability is a quality that
goes along with commitment , not with core beliefs only because they are
changeable in nature. They are also debilitating to the self if they are not
the right ones.
We really need to be very careful with such
beliefs . They tend to hurt, result in bad karma and mar relationships.
Actually, we don’t accept people and relationships
as they are. The element of tolerance and forgiveness is missing. And I think
this is because every soul on this earth is damaged. So they talk of others
being damaged but cannot face the fact that they themselves are damaged and
don’t have enough love to give. Everything then becomes a show for the outside
world. And relationships are chosen according to what they can accept, not who
they can love despite their imperfections.
Love is the only core intrinsic to humans
but it’s purity and it’s selflessness is always a question .
It is enough to go ahead and heal yourself in every way and remain within your space, your energy, without expectations . Silence is golden as they say. Silence of the mind and heart AND the brain when it is not required for daily activity.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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