There is never a time when we can
build up a case in favour of pettiness or meanness. Ultimately, the onus comes
back to us. OUR thoughts, our reactions, our prejudices.
I understand perfectly that we
have faced all this and more from other people. But, after much churning and
trying out all options , it ultimately OUR choice: to retaliate and give it as
good as we get, or to look at such people kindly and know there is something
within that have not come to terms with.
That effort, though very tough,
will pay rich dividends. It is a daily practice. And will have terrific blocks
to overcome. Because the moment you make such an intention, the universe will
start testing you with irritating episodes coming your way to see how strong is
your resolve.
These are enough to get
frustrated and leave the practice. But better to continue the practice.
Otherwise, no results will be forthcoming.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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