How can anyone else but the person concerned evaluate the impact of personal experiences? The emotional impact, maybe a shock element or a feeling of being let down, expectations unfulfilled … anything. We should know we are all different. But we still judge apples and oranges together, knowing their characteristics to be different from each other.
So, we can evaluate only
ourselves. Actually, we are capable of judging only by our standards, many of
which may not apply to the people you are attempting to evaluate.
The moment you want to remark
about another, stop! Think instead of why they disturb you enough to talk about
them. It’s not them. It is you. If we don’t want to know their story, we can
respectfully leave them alone to continue their journey. There are enough and
more challenges in it, more than we ever will know.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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