Solutions

 Humans are always grappling with regrets. It is an art to do the right thing at the right time because, otherwise, it often loses its meaning. But not everyone can do this everytime. There WILL be lapses. And as they say, if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.

Regrets are also a result of being impulsive, losing control or doing things innocently without considering how others may  react.

Whatever the reason, it is not a desirable emotion. It bogs you down when it is only a hindsight emotion. The event is past and gone by. But not for us who are still holding on. Like desperately holding onto water in the palm .

There are always solutions. Either make peace by moving on or forgive and move on. But , move on !

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Consideration

 

If we stop thinking of ourselves for a minute, we would be able to focus on one of our major responsibilities, that is, consideration for others. Right from the time we are born till the end of life, we have to live amongst people. We cannot absolve ourselves from the duties towards others. This attitude itself is an aspect of consideration, of extending the package of kindness and of understanding the needs of others.

Consideration is a highly reciprocal quality. It gives happiness and a sense of well being to both people, the one who shows it and the one who receives it and gives it back, so starting a chain which is deeply emotional and binding.

The true essence of being human is experienced when you recognize that the world is a mirror, and for you to see it smile, you have to smile into it first.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari