Showing posts with label Criticize. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Criticize. Show all posts

Friday, 20 June 2025

Compassion

 You can either look at someone and choose to find it in your heart to blame or criticize. OR, you can use compassion to understand the behavior. But let’s remember that this is the reaction of your mind which is already programmed in a certain way.

It is really a fact that if you suffer, you suffer alone. People might sympathize superficially but to feel someone’s pain is not an attribute with people.

Hence, the recommendation to understand that isolation from people is creating space for God within your energy.

Surekha Kothari

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Monday, 10 May 2021

Recognize

 

It is so easy to criticize someone. So easy to mock at someone people say there is vicarious pleasure in it. I think there is a lot of sadness behind those criticisms, those smirks and mocking.

We forget that when we see something worth criticizing, we recognize it because we also have the same traits in us. Otherwise, how would we recognize them? And to mock at others kind of camouflages our own pain at being the way we are.

Yes, if we have the courage to recognize this and work on ourselves to improve on this, that’s terrific! Sadness is no answer to anything productive.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Friday, 9 April 2021

Social media

 The human psyche has changed substantially with the onslaught of social media. And I say “onslaught” because it has swallowed a considerable amount of the time and productivity of many.

So, it IS a wonderful tool in some ways. If one can use it to be intelligently productive ironically, though, social media has hindered the “sociability” aspects. Conversations don’t flow due to cell phone breaks. Even before the covid phase, this had become evident. It used to be considered bad manners to either watch TV or be on the cell phones at a get together, Unless you were meeting to watch a match or something like that.

Today, the earlier definition of “manners” is not relevant, especially in the younger crop. “Casual” is the name of existence today. No rules. I do what I want to and when I need to, and that is the only way it goes. I don’t mean to criticize. Just pointing out that the world has changed rapidly and drastically with old concepts crumbling, giving way to new ones.

Personally, I love social Media because it is a great tool for self expression, sharing knowledge, connecting with old friends and making some new ones. And I would like to think that being of the older generation; I have the balance not to go hospitalizing myself on account of either social or phone mania.
Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari