Tuesday, 7 January 2020
Monday, 6 January 2020
Sunday, 5 January 2020
Issue of acceptance
There will always be this issue of
acceptance from and by people. We must necessarily be controlled and
circumspect, though we might be pining to be free like a bird and do exactly as
we please.
The need of being accepted stems from the
human angle only, because of dependency on each other, as the famous saying goes:
no man is an island. So, we follow rules. Allow our hearts to sing but keep a
befitting exterior. Allow our anger to kill someone in our thoughts but smile
and shake hands. Have several issues within but on being asked if we are okay,
pat comes the reply,” no problem”.
In a way, we are all split personalities,
always living more than one role, within and without. And even those change
into multiple roles depending on situations.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Thursday, 2 January 2020
Happiness Quotient
Your “swadharma”, your inner calling! One
of the major preoccupations that can elude you for a long time, it is what
comes to you naturally. Something you gave an aptitude for, something that
gives you happiness. And you enjoy it.
But how do you know what is your calling in
life? Especially today, when there are opportunities galore, unlike earlier
when there were very few lines one could take. There is every chance of
confusion or of making a wrong choice.
All achievers have had one thing in common,
that they have enjoyed every minute and been passionate about what they did.
However, it can be a challenge for multi
talented people. They may be good at academics, arts, culture and much more.
People have been known to change their paths when they discover their true
inner calling.
The best way is to observe what feelings
your activities / your career path are generating. Be aware, discuss with your
teachers and friends, if and when required, and go with your happiness
quotient.
I have seen that those who do not have a
calling don’t end up developing their personalities or confidence levels and
become complex and with complexes also.
Let it suffice for me to know that I have
my own calling like everyone else does and I need to find it. Have faith that
it is there and try to
Find it, even with help and advice from
others if you are confused. Once you find it and work on it, you will find
yourself appreciating others instead of falling short in your eyes.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Wednesday, 1 January 2020
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