A constant emotional dependence on people is a sign of not being able to live with oneself comfortably. Wanting company , wanting to party ... no harm in that. But your well being should be always under your control. And that’s where we do slip up.
In everyone’s life, some decisions made did
not work too well. And there were consequences. They may have resulted in being
single, or wounded through a relationship gone wrong.. whatever.
The issue is , we should have analysed our
thought processes to understand enough to avoid mistakes in future. But life
happens in repeated patterns if we are not careful , and then the wounds become
deep and bitterness might set in.
Not worth it ! At all ! A way to catharsis
would be to remove all such energy , imagine a fire in front of you, and
surrender all such toxins to the fire. It is a process that provides instant
relief. A regular practice can mitigate a lot of the self imposed misery.
And then start afresh, whatever your
chronological age ! It doesn’t matter.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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