We have to leave everyone to heal at their
own time and of their own accord. It used to be possible at one time to heal
through frank communication. And clearing the mind of any residue feelings of
negativity. I guess, no more ! There is more possibility of making it worse by
talking …
Two similar sounding but diametrically
opposite words are two ends of the spectrum: Accepting and expecting.
The first assists in moving forward. The
second can bog you down pretty badly because your well being lies with someone
else or something else . And you lose that much control.
We live in a world of time, space and
causation. Accepting means giving time and space and waiting for the causes to
fade from memory. Then healing happens.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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