Many issues that we deal with during
healing come from early conditioning.
Most parents bring up their children as they want to see them, not as
they are. They are taught likes and dislikes very early. They are taught social
distancing even before they are old enough to understand.
Instead of learning pure and innocent
qualities from children , parents try to teach their children many lessons
which are coloured by their own prejudices, likes and dislikes , even
hatred. Adults dump their own baggage on
the children which is just criminal ! They are already handicapping their
children emotionally and mentally.
This is the reason why parents also don’t
care enough for their own parents. So much lip talk but no genuine caring or
compassion ! It is one thing to lead your own life and another to give back
what you received. But that is forgotten.
I see parents holding their children back
from their grandparents because of their own , often very misunderstood,
personal grouses. It is so unimaginable in an educated society where we are all
meant to understand kindness and compassion which the have nots find to be a
luxury because they are barely surviving.
But… those who live more than comfortably are known to be stuck with an egoistic mind which denies them any sound advice or bringing in the light of human principles to make that shift into humaneness.
The biggest lesson for us today is to
accept this change from earlier times. And the biggest difficulty is also to
suppress love for people who mete out ego based treatment to those who love
them.
The heart needs a lot of healing , away
from the negative ego. The ability to understand someone who loves you within their own karmic challenges
requires a lot of empathy and compassion . Only genuine love can accomplish a
sound relationship. Otherwise, hurt and more hurt awaits around the corner to
fracture relationships and fragment the wholesomeness of a person. Through
constant blame !
As I have always said, we have the freedom
of choice. Either to become simple and understand what life is and how it
should be lived, or feel happy in distancing yourself from the ones that
actually love you,
So much to learn and yet, so much
unnecessary piling of daily baggage !
Humans rarely elevate to a higher
vibration, almost validating the downgrading of humanity itself. We can see
this in what the world is today… only due to the lowest form of human
existence. Everywhere , complexes, hate and vengeful actions dot the skyline
over this world, masked by capsules of sweet words which may be hiding many
undesirable motives in the heart.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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