Showing posts with label Respond. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Respond. Show all posts

Thursday, 24 September 2020

Perspectives

 

Whether peace, conflict, anger or restlessness, life does not stop for anyone. You get over grief (mostly). You experience life in many shades. You love, you lose, you win, and you battle. But at the end of the day, nothing pleases more than peace and harmony. And in learning that this is what you ultimately wanted, you have almost completed this journey.

But that is the law of life. You learn what NOT to do very late in life. You keep repeating wrong patterns of thinking and acting. Why? Why don’t some of us learn what works for us and just work with that? We create conflict situations and then we do it again and again because our responses don’t change. Our perspectives don’t change but as they say, better late than never. So, a change in favor of establishing better patterns is welcome at any time and the sooner the better.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Tuesday, 12 May 2020

Improvements


You have to be not only confident, but also open minded and intent on self improvement to be able to take frankness about yourself. It is very important to let your loved ones point out certain traits in you which need tweaking. Very often, you cannot see yourself as others can see you. But if you don’t want to know, no one will tell you. Be sure though, that the only sufferer will be you. Because improvements will not come your way and you will tend to stagnate within your state of denial.
Which state is better? That you swallow even a bitter pill to get better or take a sugar pill and insist you are getting better?
Surekha Kothari

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