I have realized that in the name of close
relationships, we give compassion but forget to reserve some of it for
ourselves. And when that happens, what comes to us is criticism. Criticism from
others turns into self criticism and soon, you start feeling you are not good
enough. You allow people to do this to you. Because the more you give, the more
they take and the more you get taken for granted.
Someone said to me that you must be more
clinical in life instead of going overboard for anyone. I would have argued a
few years ago. Today, I see the wisdom of the statement.
Be calm, clinical and clever; the 3 c's
which must rule relationships today.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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