Monday, 28 April 2025

Spirituality

The best gift to yourself would be blessings from even one person whose life improved because of you.

Why don’t we teach our children these wonderful songs with meanings for life and living? Where you do something genuinely for another without advancing your ego by commissioning the paparazzi/ media to write about that.

Living life on the surface and not connecting with other aspects of God’s creation is just a loss of opportunity to upgrade in the current lifetime.

We have no bandwidth for understanding the reasons we are here. We can stand upside down to project ourselves in the world but with misled values and understanding of the true nature of life.

We need an integrated approach: education first and then efforts with mind, values, intentions, spirituality, inclusion of creation and action.

Yes, our duty is towards self-uplift but the tools are based on our connectivity in this world. We are not here to be exclusive.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Wednesday, 23 April 2025

Courage

 Don’t allow people to disrespect you or push you down because the shine of your soul is too blinding to demean yourself through others. Believe me, the brighter you are the more you are forcing others to shut down your light. But this WILL be the side effects of ascension.

Be it anyone before you, and I mean, ANYONE, just retain your glow. Others may just be envious they have not managed it yet.

It requires the courage to withstand the onslaught of the cruelty / callousness meted out to you. These are times that you just proceed to increase your light and allow it to erase that negativity coming at you.

The biggest mistake we make is to expect our brand of energy in people around us.

Remember, we are all here, within relationships to sort out our karma with each other, not to get entangled in pushes and pulls of the senses. Or in attachments inevitably leading to aversions / hatreds, thereby losing the whole purpose of our existence.

“I am existence, consciousness, bliss. “

Say it and remember it.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Sunday, 20 April 2025

Spiritual Growth

 Be aware that as long as you are getting toxicity and aversions from either your relationships or your own reactions to those aversions, your spiritual growth is suspect. If you genuinely want spiritual growth, remember to follow a one dimensional path, leaving the peripherals behind. 

It takes lifetimes to realize how involved we are within the cycle of likes and dislikes, mine and thine, controlling others to fulfil your ends and these are never spiritual … however much you might be into spiritual texts.

Once this hits you, change starts to happen and it is a long arduous path because there has been so much build-up of memories which cannot be shaken off easily.

I remember a Hindi saying

Ek saadhe sab sadhe

Sab saadhe sab jaay

So, get into that single point agenda as soon as possible. There is no other option, believe me.  Relieve yourself of the pain that the world provides you amply.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Thursday, 10 April 2025

Humanity

 What is relevant in today’s context is the revival of the old values that we have lost as having branded them as obsolete. They are the need of the day!

You only have to see the turmoil around us to understand that we are completely on the wrong path. We have overstepped the boundaries everywhere, person to person, family to family, religion to religion, country to country and so on.

We don’t understand the concept of space. The human being is basically constricted within the physical persona and the instinct is to expand. In the attempt to do so, we are impinging on the space of others, whether people or countries. Instead, we should be expanding into the vast spiritual realm .

Deliberate interference, intentional attempts to control and this through the invasion of space which does not belong to us. And this is generally the starting point of every complication and conflict, which then keeps building to a point of no return.

Intervention is generally a bad idea. It is crossing boundaries.

It raises opportunities for conflict.

We have gradually travelled in time from forward to regression, harmony to dissensions, intolerance of difference in perceptions, dominance of personal egos and a race to become the dominant power in the world.

See, all this comes with a huge price tag and a raging discontent of many. We have seen revolutions happen in history with the discontent of disparities. But we don’t seem to stop. I wonder what self-destructive mind-sets are these that we have become suicidal in the self-destructive actions.

Again and again, we see people destroying people and in the end, destroying themselves.

This is where the old, so called “obsolete” values need to be brought back…. The patterns of human thinking and behavior to be thoroughly looked into and changed whatever required!

It is all very well to say we have become modern. But perhaps we stood out only because we were NOT but culturally sound. We practiced humanity, the power on which we stand today also, up to a point, and for which the world looks up at us today.

But success lies in the sum total of the collective values of the masses that believe in some common principles. We all know what they are. But practice is another issue altogether.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Thursday, 3 April 2025

Simplicity

 Why be complicated when simplicity can set you free? It is truly amazing to see how people think. And how they can actually trouble themselves with their thinking patterns. Like…

Finding a problem for every solution.

Attributing hidden motives to innocent statements

Interpreting words according to their personal prejudices

Believing lies about people who are not in your list of “favorites”

Getting colored by people you like even if they are wrong

Supporting friends who are doing wrong

Getting close to people for the wrong reasons

Shunning those who love you dearly

Discarding family for various frivolous reasons, most of them not valid

Knocking down many supporters in a race for popularity and success

And more….

My question is, why! Do we have to discard the ladder which was put together by so many loving souls? For you to climb on. Is it necessary to misunderstand motives of those who have always looked out for you with love and even selfless love?

Are we never going to change all this? How many years do we have on this earth? And how many years do seniors have left? These reflections should have started yesterday. 

 For life waits for no one.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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