When you have been deprived of loving relationships yourself, it is truly agonizing to see people who have them but who destroy them.
You will find several people in
this world who will be around you for different reasons. Some valid. Some not so valid.
But those who have been in your
life forever and with whom you have had happy memories are already strong in
love for you. Childhood bonds persist. I have also seen close people having
misunderstandings and going away from each other, only to return even years
later. And i think, “what a waste of precious time”.
The fact is, the close ones have
the power to hurt your maximum. Due the very love you hold in your heart.
The amount we live in fear can be
totally reduced if we love and support each other during our lives. Bonds built
in childhood are strong. Ask someone who never had them! How difficult life can
be!
I look around and find so many egos consuming
people, that they have lost the art of loving, giving love precedence over
small issues magnified to a point of no return.
And I think, “what a waste of
precious time!”
Surekha Kothari
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