Wednesday, 17 November 2021
Tuesday, 16 November 2021
Monday, 15 November 2021
Evolution
It is the ego that judges people. And it is
our self esteem quotient that become critical , both of ourselves and others.
We tend to judge others by what we don’t like within ourselves because there is
a resonance between the two. It is almost like you dislike someone because they
, in some way, show you what you lack. A mirror effect. And you don’t want to
go there. Is denial the answer , is the question .
This is how we block our own evolution. The
ego denies and falsifies evidence right before us. And we hurry away from
truthful realisations. Does not solve anything though. In fact, compounds the
issue , because now, we are trying to bury it deep inside. But it is going to
trigger repercussions some time.
To step out of an uncomfortable darkness,
the door needs to be opened to let the light in AND to move forward. And only
WE can open that door.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Friday, 12 November 2021
Tuesday, 9 November 2021
Personality
I always wonder as to how much even the
person closest to you really knows you. Can anyone know anyone ? Maybe, to some
extent, as much as they are predictable , I guess. But there are so many hidden
and hence, unpredictable facets of any personality that have perhaps yet to be
triggered and therefore, remain within the concealed part of the personality.
And yet, how easily we say that we know
someone completely ! I don’t think we even remotely know the extent of our own
selves for that matter. And knowing this would be definitely more productive .
One lifetime is certainly not enough to
peel away all the layers that we have painstakingly piled on to our persona. It
is always wise to explore our own space and to clean it up when and where
required. Therein lies the illumination possibility.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari




