Wednesday, 15 January 2025
Thursday, 9 January 2025
Judgement
Human beings struggle with their deep insecurities and a lot of fear. On this base, they create need based relationships which they give titles to, like “friendship”. There is seldom any trust and faith. There is more judgement on how we can put our best foot forward to retain this quality of bonhomie. And fear that one wrong word or action can remove you from the relationship. If we cannot find comfort in an association, will it last? Perhaps only if we agree to keep paying a price with our own self. And that becomes painful after a point.
I think there is loneliness in
groups today because we cannot be our authentic selves and pretense and
compromise become very exhausting. So exhausting that sometimes, we ourselves want
to distance ourselves from joining group activity. The same goes for one to one
relationships. Nothing can endure without faith and trust. Can it? Can we re-establish
our base then, to faith and trust?
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Wednesday, 8 January 2025
Tuesday, 7 January 2025
Transformation
Transformation is always from within. It is a change which comes to stay. Cannot be external or faked. Also, it comes after a lot of churning within. With a realization that something NEEDS to be changed, that it is not quite right, even makes you uncomfortable.
We have a built in meter within
us which tells us. But we may not either realize this or want to listen to it.
When we are not ready and have to go
Through some more churning.
Isn’t it strange then that we
have everything with us, but we take so much time to actually turn to the right
side of the coin?
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Thursday, 2 January 2025
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