Showing posts with label Judgment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Judgment. Show all posts
Wednesday, 23 June 2021
Wednesday, 5 May 2021
Consequences
Let every experience polish your shine more and more. Detach
yourself from it and you will see what that experience is trying to show you
about yourself. Every such realization adds shine to your persona. Don’t get
involved in the judgmental aspects of goodness and adversity of them. That is
just your perspective. In reality, the implications are vast and consequences
far reaching... much more than you know.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Thursday, 19 March 2020
Monday, 8 April 2019
Tuesday, 26 March 2019
Friday, 7 December 2018
Monday, 12 November 2018
Thursday, 8 November 2018
Human relationships
Don't judge people from where you are.
Everyone has a story. I read a very beautiful story which is relevant to this
thought.
A father and son were travelling by train
with a young couple sitting in the same compartment.
The son, looking out of the window, shouted
excitedly, "dad, look ! The trees are going back!”
Then again, he said, "dad, look, the
clouds are running with us".
The young couple told the father, “You
should take your son to a doctor. There is something wrong with him".
The father said," we are just
returning from the doctor. My son was blind from birth and has just got his
eyes back."
The couple was ashamed for their hasty
judgment.
So, you see, we constantly feel the need to
judge overt actions without understanding what inspired them in the first
place. Human relationships are always in trouble because we judge more and care
less. We are so keyed up that we don't even know how to smile at someone who
does not smile at us. We don't know kindness, caring and sharing.
But we do live easily on a lack of trust,
suspicion, grudges, envy and constant insecurity emanating out of a deep sense
of inadequacy which we seldom address. We live on a superficial self image most
of the time.
If we are on a judging spree, let us judge
ourselves and see where we can improve and let the others introspect on
themselves. Mind our own store.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Wednesday, 10 October 2018
Wednesday, 1 August 2018
Sunday, 22 July 2018
Option in life
We have so many postulates and generalities we
speak out mechanically. "Good from far but far from good". Really! I
want to ask, are you talking about yourself? After all, everything in this
world has a mirror effect.
If you look deep within each individual, there
is something nice and good in everyone. So, when we believe the above saying
about someone, we are just resonating and trying to cope with this feeling
within ourselves. And if we ARE doing that, then we don't know how to touch the
positive core in another. Again, this means that we are unable to touch our own
positive core because negative memories have taken over.
I keep thinking that in order to keep our health,
we need to clean our homes, both inner and outer. Trying to clean someone
else's backyard will not clean up yours.
Frivolity and skimming the surface of life is
an option. But for those looking for pearls, deep sea diving is the only
answer.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Tuesday, 13 March 2018
Thursday, 22 February 2018
Trait
To be dependable is a great character
trait. Can people do that with you? When you say something, you do it. When you
commit something, you stand by it. You value your words as much as others do
because you top them up with action, a great quality, indeed.
I see loose words hanging in the air a lot.
You learn to understand who says things for effect and will never act on them.
In the long run, you simply can't depend on them. Not a good thing and not the
best way to be or the best reputation to have. Because it demonstrates that you
are not committed even to yourself.
I hear people say that they are committed
to some and not to others. But then, don't offer or promise to do things for
people you are NOT feeling committed to. Then you are okay and would still be
called a committed person. People have forgotten that words are energy and are
to be valued.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Thursday, 17 November 2016
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