Showing posts with label phase. Show all posts
Showing posts with label phase. Show all posts

Thursday, 21 January 2016

Points to remember

Pain of any kind is necessary for a release of the old and advent of the new. For example, if I fall and hurt myself, and there is much pain, I know that my awareness quotient was very low. So, I make it a point to remember that I must walk with a greater awareness. So, the fall acts as a catalyst of change. 

It is a good idea to examine the events where we acted out of less awareness and which landed us into trouble and pain. We say "I will never do this again" but the "never" happens again and yet again. 

Surekha Kothari
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Thursday, 19 February 2015

Phase out your life

Just as a play or movie unfolds scene by scene, so, too, life unfolds in phases. The students of today will qualify as adult, working members of society tomorrow. What we are today will shape our next phase. It is, therefore, very important to know what our “dharma’ or body of duties is during the student stage.


In the old Vedic times, when the “Guru Shishya Parampara” existed, students were taught everything that a youngster needed to know by way of   social, economic and political knowledge, along with the etiquette of living within a family and social system, behavioral patterns, and, above all, respect and love for all. The Guru’s “Ashram” was a complete school. As a result, the student moved into the next phase of householder and earning member of the family naturally and easily. This was possible because every student conformed to a well balanced, comprehensive and wholesome system of teaching imparted by the Guru or teacher with utmost honesty and sincerity. The system was also designed to integrate and connect people as individuals, families and societies so that a common value system of mutual love and respect created a peaceful and harmonious environment and a working atmosphere of mutual  trust. The honing of emotional intelligence through understanding, acceptance and sacrifice based on compassion became the common foundation of all human behavior.

Today, those values are not taught in educational institutions. The accent is more on material success. We need to bring back our timeless but fast disappearing rich culture and traditions which we have not been able to transfer to our succeeding generations. This is where our uniqueness lies, however modern we become in other ways.

Surekha Kothari