Tuesday, 5 March 2019

Essence of a human being

The "Ardhanareeshwar " concept is again coming back into discussion . The symbolism of half man and half woman is the essence of a human being. Both the male and the female are within each of us and it is necessary to balance the two sides for happy living.
Actually, our conditioning is just the opposite. Separate perceptions and therefore, upbringing also. The imbalance is created very early in life from which many do not surface at all. Families and Societies become troubled and in conflict because the role play of people itself is faulty.
I hope the new generations will understand how to raise their children with better knowledge.
Surekha Kothari

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Sunday, 3 March 2019

Empowerment

We indulge in many impression creating words like "empowerment". Sounds... hmmm.. like a powerful word. Well, it is . But again, we dilute its significance by attributing the need for empowerment merely in women and then , in children. It seems to be by default that if men are not included, they are already empowered.
A truly empowered person cannot inflict pain or resort to sadism or abuse even remotely, precisely because "empowerment" is a sum total of many humane qualities. We always hear that women need empowerment because they work against each other or don't make productive use of their lives. Not to mention being second class citizens.
But, I think men could very well have men empowerment organisations where they learn how to respect, support and care for the womenfolk . AND teach their own kind to abstain from abuse of all kind just on the prowess of their physical strength as is evidenced by the rampant crime against women and children all through the world. After all, they were all born of women. When heinous crimes are committed, mothers and sisters are probably kept behind doors to be protected from people like themselves.
Capital crimes without capital punishment. Statistically, how many women rape and kill ? And yet, THEY need the empowerment ? Requires major thought, doesn't it ?
Surekha Kothari

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