Wisdom

The phrase “acting according to character” sets me thinking. We all have certain basic characteristics that show up as a pattern in daily life. To that extent, we CAN appear as predictable.

On the other hand, to what extent can anyone of us be slotted? Any unexpected action or behavior immediately brands us as acting OUT of character. And comments like, “I didn’t think he/ she was capable of this”.

Let’s watch ourselves to see how many times we do this! As if we know people in and out! The truth is, we are evolving as we trigger old memories and have new experiences. And with every experience, we are also changing subtly. We don’t see it immediately unless we are very aware.

All we can do is observe the changes within us and within others. And mark them for future interactions. In a nutshell, no one remains static. Movement is key. We only choose the direction according to our awareness and wisdom.

Surekha Kothari

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Evolution

 How can you rise when you are holding on to what weighs you down? If you are not practicing stillness but instead, are involved in all the noise around you, you will not be able to hear the voice of your soul.

It is in stillness that clarity comes. It is in silence that answers come. Just as the full impact of the sun’s rays gets diluted when clouds cover it, the voices in our minds drown that one meaningful whisper.

Syncing our vibrations with our higher self will result in finding that stillness within, which will enhance our spiritual understanding and lead us to a path where evolution awaits.

Surekha Kothari

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Courage

Being timid in today’s cut throat world is a huge handicap. Where, in society, people are constantly judged, criticized unfairly, envied for what they have, and some people are desirous of bringing them down, to take all this lying down can mean not “living” at all.

Being good has a huge price in this world. Goodness shines bright and is sometimes blinding to those who function better in darkness.

It is therefore, important to counteract attempts to crush you with courage and righteousness. In time and with staying with the light of truth, it is possible to nullify intentions of any kind of destruction. The universe always helps those who stay in the light despite all challenges to the contrary.

Surekha Kothari

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Perceptions

Why is it that, in society, the act of gossip is entertainment to us? It is definitely slander. It results in maligning the person you are gossiping about. And the people we talk about are not even present to respond. And we feel satisfied when others agree with us? Really? We have reached a stage where sensitivity and spirituality is nowhere. We are living a lie and in total ignorance. Even though, I am sure, everyone has a need to be seen as “good”, we get stuck within our own limitations of our frustrations and cravings.

Our own inadequacies probably give us a short term “high” through speaking about the limitations of others and criticizing them. Our perceptions about others then, become a convenient argument that probably makes us feel superior to them. Reality may be very far from what we think. We are merely delusional. The irony is, we do very little to work on ourselves. Hard work comes hard although, the fact is, looking within is the only way to create the right values within us.

There is a world out there that does not know the meaning of being spiritual and being close to the Divine. It is dark and defiant of any light coming in. Let US at least live in the light ourselves, each one of us. Be sensitive and compassionate. Let’s be good. Let’s understand that everyone is fulfilling their karma only. No more, no less. And everyone is living a challenge. So, Be kind. Be helpful.

Surekha Kothari

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Counselling

 

Adversity

 To practice dharmic righteousness in today’s decadent world takes grit, complete conviction, a lot of courage to face adversity and hostility from the world.

The majority of humans would prefer you to be polluted and tainted so that they can identify with you. You remember? They did not even spare Jesus Christ!

Your goodness shows a mirror they don’t want to look into. They would rather try to bring you down to their level or destroy your reputation. 

We suffer for it. It’s not that we are happy with the way we are. I don’t know why then, we don’t try harder to get out of such mindsets and liberate our minds from our own darkness. And atone for what we have done that we are not proud of. Look inwards, not outwards.

Surekha Kothari

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Self-Destructive

People find it easier to live amidst past memories. Strange because it is like a pool of a lot of stagnant water of a lot of negative emotions, hurts and anger, all of which are self-consuming and self-destructive.

Why? It is a known territory even if people have to relive suffering! More so when there are negative emotions attached to those memories which smoulder within. How does one forget?

Letting go is difficult also because what is yet to come is unknown. And there is fear of the unknown.

We have a tendency to hold on to crutches which are obviously temporary. When WE are temporary in this world, how can we think anything can be permanent?

A journey is like a flow of events which we must experience as observers only. That is the best training we can give ourselves. The universe is working systematically and with a beautiful flow. We don’t even notice. We only lament about ourselves and what we got/ did not get, deserved/ did not deserve and most importantly, WHY others got more than we did.

If this is our thought process, we deserve then, to suffer.

Surekha Kothari

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