Sunday, 6 May 2018

Self preservation


It is common sense that the boat on the river must ensure that it crosses without developing a leak or allowing the water to enter it. No one in their right minds would deliberately sink it while in it.
But when it comes to humans, we do tend to get destructive enough to forget our own self preservation.
Housing every minor or major negativity makes that one hole in the boat each time. Either we fail to see it happen or we are confident that the little damage is not going to make a dent in our journey. And consequently, hole after hole is made. We often laugh at the one that cautions us. And carry on in the same vein. The slant of the boat is gradual and the tipping point come suddenly and without warning.
We haven't had enough awareness or wisdom to understand when to stop and plug the leaks. This realization, if it is timely, is enough to begin the plugging process and of course, with humility and intelligent wisdom.
Surekha Kothari

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Thursday, 3 May 2018

Ignorance


The hardest thing is to let go and let people walk away. As hard as it is to walk away from people who have contributed to happy memories. Tough to convince yourself that their role in your life is over and yet, to remember that they are your soul connections from many lives. Good to remember that they play a part in your life as you do in theirs.
How intense is attachment? And how painful, too. And worse is when, in ignorance, you begin to react badly to them when you don't need to. We all just play a role.
But how difficult it is to make you believe this! How very intense and illusory is attachment!
Surekha Kothari

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Tuesday, 1 May 2018

Controversy


It is generally wise to just withdraw in the face of the ego of someone you know well. Relationships are precarious when egos are high. If one accepts a person with all the traits, that equation might be different from that of two people who are equal and confident. It all boils down to how much you have digested life and its principles. And how much calmness your inner being has achieved for you not to get affected by external stimuli.
The one who succeeds is the one who knows how to refrain from
Sparking controversies and tries to appeasing those around. It makes you popular and endearing, but comes with the pain of holding back personal thoughts, speech, both of which might be contrary to the opinion of others.
Life is like that laced with some moving forward and some backwards and some standing still.
Surekha Kothari

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