Showing posts with label Religious. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Religious. Show all posts

Thursday, 28 November 2019

Diversity

When your consciousness expands and extends beyond the self, it is a wonderful feeling. You see what you didn’t see before. You hear what you couldn’t before. The same environment seems different. What used to bother you earlier you only smile at now.
This happens when you focus on yourself and learn to consciously look beyond the visible. Of course, you might also see what you may not want to see. But one has to make peace with the diversity in this world without getting affected in whatever manner. This process begins with a higher awareness which becomes deeper and deeper as you go along.
Surekha Kothari

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Tuesday, 1 January 2019

Perception


Setting examples! The common belief is that parents and elders should set examples to their children to follow. From generation to generation, this hasn't changed. And while that is true, many parents have to also face a lot of flak and criticism for not coming up to the mark by setting adequate examples worthy of being emulated.
In all of this, I often wonder! Are we setting good examples for ourselves first? Or is it that counseling and advising others on how to live life is easier? For sure, in most cases.
So, how do I appear to me be the moot questioned because it is only that perception which can be changed if we don't look good to ourselves? We can't mute that inner voice that speaks to us like we can mute a chat group with a click today.
So, it is most worthwhile to start improving our image in our own eyes and take our own advice, which we generally give others. Be your own example and let others emulate it if they so wish.
Surekha Kothari

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Monday, 9 January 2017

Patience

Karma! The ideal balance of performing karma is that on one hand, have limitless patience and on the other, don't perform your karma with an eye towards the results. That is called "Samatva” of karma.
Secondly, if you accept the karma as a doer, the positivity or negativity also becomes yours. For example, a fisherman kills fish to sell and feed his family. It is his work and he never dwells on the ethics of it. Therefore, his karma is pure. He even dances and sings when he has had a good catch because there is no thought of any guilt of killing.
Take another example. You say something innocently to a friend but that causes some hurt in the friend. You are unaware until they tell you that you shouldn't have said what you did because it was hurtful. And you now begin to feel guilty and acknowledge that you are wrong. This then immediately becomes your karma, because you accepted it as wrong.
So, karma is completely intention based. Lord Krishna, therefore, asked humans to surrender all karma to him. If" I "am not a doer (karta), where is the karma?

Surekha Kothari

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Monday, 19 December 2016

Destiny

Sometimes, when there is no moon, even the tide goes into depression and ebbs away...life also ebbs away slowly, inch by inch. Ultimately, you are face to face with your God. And you both know the truth of your life. Life after life, only the Divine and your soul are players. Destiny leads always. If Jesus Christ could be crucified, what can we say of lesser beings? The world is a stage for many dramas unfolding...and the more involved you get, the more miserable life becomes. Play your character to the hilt as per your conscience. Don't expect anyone to know or empathize with your story. After all, they are also birds of passage. What and who do you think you can hold onto?
Surekha Kothari

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Wednesday, 30 November 2016

Prejudice

Prejudice! It is very unfortunate that so much of value is lost through prejudice. Individual prejudices are bad enough, but we also get embroiled in family prejudices, religious prejudices, social and cultural prejudices and so on....how much dislike or even hate we harbor within us! It is incredible!
If you are divorced, you won't allow your children to keep any contact with the "estranged" family members. If someone is better than you in some ways, you don't like them. Complex wins against confidence.
So much self inflicted grief! For what reason? Because you can't see your own strengths or know that connectivity comes from the heart, not through wordy attributes. That getting brain washed against people others don't want you to keep connections with is a minus in YOUR book only.
Families have broken up when elders malign and shun family members and teach their children to hate instead of making their own healthy choices and making them into wholesome individuals. Friends, now close and now distanced due to nothing but sudden misunderstandings and resulting prejudices.
I wish mankind becomes kinder and spiritually mature. Realizes that there is a story behind every facade. That prejudices affect only your life and mind. And look at what happens as an extension ....wars, terrorism, crime...all in the name of prejudice and intolerance.
Not at all worth it!!

Surekha Kothari

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