The biggest challenge we humans face is to
keep our thoughts clean. Something or the other always comes in the way of pure
action because thoughts are not so pure.
The way it works is, your thoughts transfer
to your emotions and emotions to decision making followed finally by action.
Naturally then, positive thoughts should be preferred for the entire cycle of
thoughts to action to be positive, too.
I hear many people say they are very
positive among their own groups. It's also like kids who are well behaved
outside but not at home. The cycle of energy breaks this way. You can't have a
half positive and half negative approach. If you are good, you are good, in any
situation.
I see a lot of conditional responses from
people. And that does not make them wholesome personalities. On the contrary, these
are more reactive personalities. If you notice, the day you wake up with a
smile, all goes well and you end up in bed with a smile. It is one happy day.
But on another day, one small unpleasantness can ruin your whole day. Not at
all worth it but it is hard to philosophize and move on at the time.
You can train yourself to give the correct
responses with a fair amount of common sense and intelligence.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
